A Kinder Way to Wellbeing

The Heart of Our Programmes

Kind, Kinder, Kindest—How We Cultivate Self-kindness

We believe wellbeing¹ begins with how we relate to ourselves, and self-kindness sits at the heart of that. Our gentle framework, Kind, Kinder, Kindest offers a clear and gentle path to cultivating self-kindness in daily life. Through our evidence-informed 12 week online programmes, Calm, Clear, and Connected, we share accessible, grounded ways to practice mindfulness, compassion, and presence, especially when things feel hard. Designed to meet you where you are and grow with you, our approach is calm, kind, and deeply human, helping shape more resilient lives and a kinder, more connected world.

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¹Holistic wellbeing - Te Whare Tapa Whā: a wellbeing model developed by leading Māori health advocate Sir Mason Durie in 1984. It includes taha wairua for spiritual wellbeing, taha hinengaro for mental and emotional wellbeing, taha tinana for physical wellbeing and taha whānau, family for social wellbeing and connection with the whenua, the land and nature. When all these things are in balance, we thrive. When one or more of these wellbeing aspects is out of balance wellbeing is impacted.

Meeting You Where You Are

We offer guided pathways to cultivate self-kindness by meeting you where you are, honouring your unique journey, and pace without judgment. Whether you're beginning or deepening your self-kindness practice, our Calm, Clear, and Connected steps are nurtured through Kind Caller’s own wellbeing framework Kind, Kinder, and Kindest.

Our Approach

Inspired by self-compassion researcher Dr. Kristin Neff and the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) approach, Kind Caller is independently created and not affiliated with the official MSC programme. We are trained mindfulness facilitators, drawing from Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), developed by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn.

Our practice is also grounded in Te Whare Tapa Whā, the holistic Māori model of wellbeing developed by Sir Mason Durie. It is also enriched by the research of Dr. Hinemoa Elder, who reminds us that self-kindness is not only personal, but deeply relational and spiritual. These foundations inform how we support the cultivation of self-kindness skills, gently, steadily, and always in connection with the world around us. We provide calm, consistent, and grounded support, and adapt to each person’s needs and pace. We listen with care, noticing what’s spoken and unspoken, and adjust guidance in a way that feels respectful and supportive.

Kind Caller facilitators bring professional experience in mindfulness, communication, and environmental wellbeing, with qualifications in human sciences and communications, iwi environmental management, and accredited mindfulness training. We are committed to ethical, compassionate support and ongoing learning, so we can meet your needs with care, presence, and respect.

⚠️ Important Information

Disclaimer: Kind Caller offers self-kindness and mindfulness programmes and is not a healthcare provider. Our facilitators are not licensed therapists or medical professionals, and our services are not a substitute for professional mental health care or crisis support. If you are in crisis, feeling unsafe, or need urgent help, please contact a qualified health professional, helpline, or emergency service in your area. For ongoing mental health concerns, we encourage you to speak with your doctor, counsellor, or another trusted healthcare provider. We’re here to support your journey with kindness and care.

Need Support?

If you’re going through a tough time or need someone to talk to, here are some free and confidential support options in New Zealand (independent of Kind Caller):

  • 1737, Need to Talk? — Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor (New Zealand, 24/7)

  • Lifeline — 0800 543 354 or text HELP to 4357

  • Emergency Services — Call 111 in any life-threatening situation

Kind (Calm)

Atawhai - Kind, Caring Compassionate

Kind means being gentle, caring, and considerate, offering simple warmth and support. It’s about small acts of self-kindness, patience, and understanding toward yourself or others, often in everyday moments. It represents the starting point of awareness and self-kindness.

Kinder (Clear)

He atawhai ake - more kind, kinder

Kinder is the comparative form of kind, meaning more kind. It suggests a deeper, more intentional expression of self-kindness, going beyond basic care to actively nurture and encourage growth. Being kinder means increasing the level of compassion and attentiveness, often through more thoughtful and personalised actions.

Kindest (Connected)

Te tino atawhai - the kindest (the greatest form of kindness)

Kindest is the superlative form of kind, meaning the highest or most intense degree of kindness. It reflects the fullest, most profound expression of compassion and care, marked by ongoing commitment, deep empathy, and self-compassion. Being kindest means embodying self-kindness in a way that transforms relationships with yourself, and others, and the natural world through self-compassion.

Self-kindness Programmes at-a-glance

Each step builds on the previous one, gently guiding you through a supportive self-kindness framework.

Plan

Kind Caller Self-kindness Framework

Beginner Plan

Kind

Personalised Plan

Kinder

Together Plan

Kindest

Wellbeing

Te Whare Tapa Whā + *Mindfulness

Taha Tinana, Taha Hinengaro, Taha Wairua. Calming the body and mind

Taha Hinengaro, Taha Wairua. Clarity of mind and balanced awareness

Taha Whānau, Taha Wairua. A deeper connection inwards and outwards

*Elements of the Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction programme and Mindfulness Self-compassion.

Programme

Self-kindness Programme

Self-kindness

Resilience

Wellbeing

Step

Progressive step

Calm

Clear

Connected