About Our Programmes
Meeting You Where You Are
We offer guided pathways to cultivate self-kindness by meeting you where you are, honouring your unique journey, and pace without judgment. Whether you're beginning or deepening your self-kindness practice, our Calm, Clear, and Connected steps include three levels of programme support: Kind, Kinder, and Kindest.
Our Approach
Inspired by self-compassion researcher Dr. Kristin Neff and the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) approach, Kind Caller is independently created and not affiliated with the official MSC programme. We are trained mindfulness facilitators, drawing from Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), developed by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn.
Our practice is also grounded in Te Whare Tapa Whā, the holistic Māori model of wellbeing developed by Sir Mason Durie, and enriched by the wisdom of Dr. Hinemoa Elder, who acknowledges that self-kindness is not only personal, but deeply relational and spiritual. These foundations inform how we support the cultivation of self-kindness skills, gently, steadily, and in connection with the world around us. We provide calm, consistent, and grounded support, and adapt to each person’s needs and pace. We listen with care, noticing what’s spoken and unspoken, and adjust guidance in a way that feels respectful and supportive.
Kind Caller facilitators hold professional accreditations in mindfulness and wellbeing facilitation, ensuring we provide quality, ethical, and compassionate support. Our ongoing commitment to training and professional development helps us meet your unique needs with care and respect.
⚠️ Important Information
Disclaimer: Kind Caller offers self-kindness and mindfulness programmes and is not a healthcare provider. Our facilitators are not licensed therapists or medical professionals, and our services are not a substitute for professional mental health care or crisis support. If you are in crisis, feeling unsafe, or need urgent help, please contact a qualified health professional, helpline, or emergency service in your area. For ongoing mental health concerns, we encourage you to speak with your doctor, counsellor, or another trusted healthcare provider. We’re here to support your journey with kindness and care.
Need Support?
If you’re going through a tough time or need someone to talk to, here are some free and confidential support options in New Zealand (independent of Kind Caller):
1737, Need to Talk? — Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor (New Zealand, 24/7)
Lifeline — 0800 543 354 or text HELP to 4357
Emergency Services — Call 111 in any life-threatening situation
Kind (Calm)
Kind means being gentle, caring, and considerate, offering simple warmth and support. It’s about small acts of self-kindness, patience, and understanding toward yourself or others, often in everyday moments. It represents the starting point of awareness and self-kindness.
Kinder (Clear)
Kinder is the comparative form of kind, meaning more kind. It suggests a deeper, more intentional expression of self-kindness, going beyond basic care to actively nurture and encourage growth. Being kinder means increasing the level of compassion and attentiveness, often through more thoughtful and personalised actions.
Kindest (Connected)
Kindest is the superlative form of kind, meaning the highest or most intense degree of kindness. It reflects the fullest, most profound expression of compassion and care, marked by ongoing commitment, deep empathy, and self-compassion. Being kindest means embodying self-kindness in a way that transforms relationships with yourself and others.
Self-kindness Programmes at-a-glance
Each step builds on the previous one, gently guiding you through a supportive framework.
Plan
Support Level
Beginner Plan
Kind
Personalised Plan
Kinder
Together Plan
Kindest
Wellbeing
Te Whare Tapa Whā
Taha Tinana, Taha Hinengaro — calming the body and mind
Taha Hinengaro — clarity of mind and balanced awareness
Taha Whānau, Taha Wairua — connection and a deeper sense of belonging
Programme
Self-kindness Programmes
Self-kindness
Resilience
Wellbeing
Step
Progressive step
Calm
Clear
Connected
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Kind Reminder: Follow the heart